It’s a sad truth but weddings are expensive. Been there, done that and I get it. On the one side, your heart is crying “it’s a once in a lifetime event” but on the other, alarm bells are ringing and you’re thinking “do we really need that?”. It is so easy to get carried away with your planning because we all want that gorgeous big hurrah for our big day, but without careful consideration you might be left kicking yourself later.
There are many ways to save on the crazy costs without skimping on the prettiness and details or compromising on quality. You can still make your wedding day memorable without spending a fortune. You just need to know what you want and be willing to get creative. So, here are some tips on how to make your big day a little less painful on your bank account.
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(1) The Bridal Party
Don’t rush to ask all your friends to be your bridesmaids or groomsmen. The larger the bridal party, the more you will need to spend on things like boutonnière, suits, dresses, hair, make up, bouquets and cars. So instead of liberally asking all your close friends, take the time to decide who you really want up at the aisle with you on your wedding day and just ask one or two.
Hold your wedding ceremony and reception at the one venue. Not only will this save you some money, it’ll also mean your guests can spend more time celebrating with you and you won’t have to stress over how to transport guests from one venue to the other or what guests can do during the time in between.
(3) Guest List
Cut the guest list. To keep numbers down, don’t invite children or co-workers. Include your friend’s significant others but not casual dates. This will cut your catering costs and help you save on invitations, centerpieces and gifts.
(4) Avoid Peak Season
Booking a less popular time of the year will help you keep costs down. Perhaps opt for a weeknight or afternoon affair as rates are often lower. It doesn’t matter what others think. Do what’s best for you. It is your wedding after all.
Stop yourself from spending on the more costly flowers by picking flowers that are in season so your florist won’t have to import any exotic or out-of-season blooms. Stick to just one or two kinds of flowers. Re-use your bridesmaid’s bouquets for the reception or head table. Opt for lower floral arrangements rather than tall floral centerpieces. There are plenty of ways to save on wedding florals!
Save on stationer costs and postage with simple single-page invitations or send out email save-the-dates. If you have additional information you would like to inform your guests about, post it up on a wedding website. There are so many free ones these days!
Booking a less popular time of the year will help you keep costs down. Perhaps opt for a weeknight, lunch or afternoon affair as rates are often lower. It doesn’t matter what others think. Do what’s best for you. It is your wedding after all.
(8) Wedding Favours
Look for favours that can double as escort cards, decorations or bombonieres. From lollies to cupcakes, tag your favours with each guest’s name and table number and place them on the escort table. For those crafty brides, consider making your favours. Things such as homemade jam, fudge, cookies can all be packaged and tagged with each guests’ name and table number to double as escort cards. A lot of couples these days are even opting for giving charitable donations to causes close to their hearts in place of favours. Just be sure to let guests know of the donation by placing a note at each place setting or table for guests to read.
(9) Wedding Cake
Have the wedding cake double as dessert and serve with tea and coffee at the end of your reception.
Pay for some wedding costs with your credit card to earn more frequent-flyer points which can then be put towards booking your romantic honeymoon.